Busy mothers can get fit at home with short, regular workouts. Research shows activity of any length counts towards better health, so 15 minutes a day, or three 5-minute bursts, is a real start. Choose a fixed time, keep it simple, involve your children when you can, and build up slowly towards 150 minutes a week. Dance and bodyweight moves at home need no gym, no equipment and no babysitter.
Why it is so hard to exercise as a mother
If you have stopped exercising since having children, you are not alone, and it is not a lack of willpower.
- Parents are less active than people without children, and mothers are generally less active than fathers, a review of 25 study samples found.
- Motherhood adds weight. A 2020 meta-analysis found that becoming a mother was linked with about 1.3 kg of extra weight gain over around five years, compared with women who did not have children.
- The barriers are real. Working mothers and fathers in one study named family responsibilities, guilt, lack of support, scheduling and work as their main barriers.
The same study found what helped: being active with children, wanting to be a role model, making activity a priority, seeing the benefits for the family, and having support. That is the plan below.
Dr. Jyoti’s story: from 75 kg to fit, at home
Dr. Jyoti Srivastava knows this from her own life. After a painful period that included depression, and the birth of her daughter in 2017, her weight had gone from 50 to 75 kg. On 4 June 2018 she decided: “That’s it. I want my life back.” She had no gym and no extra time, so she worked out at home and ate home food. She went from 75 kg to 52 kg and has kept the weight off. The women in her housing society noticed, she started training them, and that became the FunDa Method. Today her mission is to help one million women, especially mothers, get their health back. Read her story.
Short workouts count
You may have heard that exercise only “counts” after 10 or 20 minutes. That is outdated. A systematic review for the 2018 US physical activity guidelines found that activity of any bout length is linked with better health, and WHO’s 2020 guidelines say some activity is better than none. For a mother, that means:
- 15 minutes in the morning counts.
- Three 5-minute sessions spread through the day count.
- Dancing with your children for two songs counts.
Over time, build towards WHO’s target for adults: 150 to 300 minutes of moderate activity a week, plus strength exercises on at least 2 days.
The 15-minute plan for busy days
Work at a level where you can talk but not sing. Do it in one go, or split it into three 5-minute blocks: one in the morning, one during nap or homework time, and one in the evening.
Block 1: wake up and warm up (5 minutes)
- March on the spot with arm swings: 1 minute.
- Step side to side with claps, to a song you like: 2 minutes.
- Squats, sitting back as if onto a chair: 1 minute. Hold the kitchen counter if you need support.
- Wall push-ups: 1 minute.
Block 2: dance cardio (5 minutes, about two songs)
- Bhangra shoulder bounce, stepping forward and back.
- Grapevine: step, cross behind, step, tap; to each side.
- Knee lift to the opposite elbow, to the beat.
Keep one foot on the floor if you need low impact. The full routine is in our dance workout for weight loss guide.
Block 3: strength and stretch (5 minutes)
- Bottle rows: lean forward with soft knees and pull two filled water bottles towards your ribs. 1 minute.
- Reverse lunges, holding a chair: 1 minute.
- Glute bridges on the floor: 1 minute.
- Stretch your thighs, chest and back, and take five slow breaths: 2 minutes.
A realistic week for a mother
- Monday to Friday: the 15-minute plan, in one go or in three blocks.
- Two of those days: add our 15-minute chair workout for strength, once you are comfortable.
- Weekend: a family walk, a dance party with the children, or a longer class.
That is 75 minutes in week 1. Add 5 minutes to a session every week or two, and you reach 150 minutes within a couple of months, without ever needing a free hour.
Workouts with your children
Children copy what they see. In a study of 530 mothers and their 6-year-olds, children of more active mothers were more active themselves. Being a role model was one of the strongest motivators in the working-parents study too.
- Toddlers: dance to their favourite songs, play “freeze dance”, or do animal walks together (bear crawls, frog squats).
- School-age children: let them choose the songs, count your squats, or race you to 20 star jumps (or step-jacks for low impact).
- Babies: walks with the pram or carrier, and floor exercises beside their play mat. Never do fast, jumping or twisting moves while holding a baby.
Where the time comes from
- Fix the slot. Pick the same time every day and put it in your phone like an appointment.
- Prepare the night before. Clothes out, water bottle filled, phone charged.
- Ask for help. Tell your husband or family that this 15 minutes is yours, and ask them to cover the children.
- Pair it with something you already do: after dropping children at school, while the dal cooks, or before the evening tea.
- Have a plan for bad days: if the day falls apart, do one 5-minute block. Keeping the habit matters more than the minutes.
If you had a baby recently
- The first weeks are for healing. Gentle pelvic floor exercises and short walks are usually the first step.
- Discuss exercise at your postnatal check, around 6 to 8 weeks after birth, and wait for clearance after a caesarean or a complicated delivery.
- Rebuild your core in the right order before jumping or crunches: see our pelvic floor guide, diastasis recti guide and DR-safe trim tummy workout.
- More in our postpartum fitness guide and weight loss after a C-section.
Food and sleep for tired mothers
Exercise is only one part. Eat regular meals instead of finishing the children’s leftovers on the go, build your plate around vegetables, dal or another protein, and a sensible portion of roti or rice, and sleep whenever you can. Our Indian diet for weight loss and sleep guide have simple, realistic steps.
Stop and get advice if
- you feel chest pain, faintness, or breathlessness that doesn’t settle with rest
- you have heavy bleeding, leaking urine or a bulge in your tummy during exercise after having a baby
- you feel low or anxious on most days. Please talk to your doctor or call Tele-MANAS on 14416.
Watch: Dr. Jyoti’s journey, and Shivani’s
Dr. Jyoti tells her own story in the video below, and Shivani, a FunDa member, shares how she rebuilt her fitness after pregnancy. For more members’ journeys, see real transformations.
Sources
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